Managing Conflict

Managing conflict isn't something easy nor relax to do. Its stressful and time consuming most of the time. This is because something is just too complicated to be solve straight away and sometimes you have to let each other calm down first then there will be a solution. if both parties are in rage, i think they will only most probably end up fighting and creating even more problems instead of solving problems. And sometimes time can also be something that solve conflict. i myself experienced it. Though till now i am still keep in the dark about the problem but its solve by itself after 1year of not contacting each other. Its about a good friend of mine suddenly refuse to talk to the whole clique of us and do not even want to reply our message. At that point of time its really difficult for me to solve the problem. i asked him what's wrong and so on but he just refuse to say. And after a year or more i glad to say that we now at least talk to each other once in awhile and even hanging out together sometimes.

Time management

Having proper time management is very important. Without proper time management you can spend 5hours of time doing things that is suppose to be done in 2hours. Its just like planning the day out with your friends kind of things or you also can say planning which routing to take to school or what to wear for the day kind of things. For me myself, i think i have poor time management as i always do last minute work and preparation and so on which is bad ,but i think i had become a habit for me. i think if you have notice me well enough i am never really early for my classes. Okay maybe once in while when i got nothing to do that's why i am early. But its not because i am early on purpose so its no meaning in it. Maybe when i reach year 2 or 3 then i will have proper time management or maybe not.. maybe after national service then i will have a proper time management..ya most probably it will be this way.

Stress management.

As for stress management, i think i am not very experience with this. Even my parents agree with this.. They said they have never ever seen me bother by my own studies before; which i think its quite true? i myself cannot remember me got stress up by studies too. But i got stress up by some weird things which is normally classified as not important things to parents. And i also not very sure with the things that actually can stress me up. Maybe when i have a family then i will really feel that stress. no no.. think i am too good at relaxing myself that i don't get stress up.

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