Managing Conflict

Managing conflict isn't something easy nor relax to do. Its stressful and time consuming most of the time. This is because something is just too complicated to be solve straight away and sometimes you have to let each other calm down first then there will be a solution. if both parties are in rage, i think they will only most probably end up fighting and creating even more problems instead of solving problems. And sometimes time can also be something that solve conflict. i myself experienced it. Though till now i am still keep in the dark about the problem but its solve by itself after 1year of not contacting each other. Its about a good friend of mine suddenly refuse to talk to the whole clique of us and do not even want to reply our message. At that point of time its really difficult for me to solve the problem. i asked him what's wrong and so on but he just refuse to say. And after a year or more i glad to say that we now at least talk to each other once in awhile and even hanging out together sometimes.